Start with these steps
- Find out if the person left written wishes or a prepaid plan.
- Ask the provider you chose what signed permission and ID they need.
- For burial, check that there is space in the cemetery. Ask about the fee to open and close the grave. Ask if a vault is required. A vault is an outer box that holds the casket in the ground. Ask about the rules for headstones.
- For cremation, talk about signed permission, timing, and how the person will be identified. Ask about containers. Ask how the ashes will be returned to you or placed.
- Plan the service apart from the burial or cremation. This gives your family room to think about when to hold it and who will take part.