Start with these steps
- Full legal name, date of birth, Social Security number, address, and whether they were married.
- Names of parents and spouse, and of the person with the right to make arrangements.
- Photo ID, military discharge papers, and details of any insurance or prepaid funeral plan.
- Cemetery deed, plot details, headstone rules, and any burial rights the person already has.
- Details for the obituary, a photo, contacts for a faith leader or celebrant, and wishes for the service.