The first hour

Someone has died

One person holding another person’s hand gently in both of theirs
Photograph by Nani Chavez

We are so sorry.

Three questions, all optional. Whatever you answer, we put that first and leave the rest for later. Nothing is saved, no account, and you can close this whenever you need to.

Where is your person now?

This decides who you call first, and almost nothing else matters until that is done.

Is there anything you already know they wanted?

Only if you know. Many people do not yet, and that is a perfectly normal place to be today.

What feels heaviest right now?

Whatever you pick, we will put it first and leave the rest for later.